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Post by Sincerity on May 7, 2013 5:50:14 GMT -5
How do you view the concept of living together before marriage?
Good/bad? Against your religion?
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Post by Tampaboy19N on May 7, 2013 6:24:26 GMT -5
I think it's better to live together first so you can see if can can actually do it.... not get married, then realize you get on each other's last nerve
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Post by ЯΛVΣП on May 7, 2013 10:50:17 GMT -5
I think that there are some good and bad things. One, I don't believe in sex before marriage and when you live with your boyfriend there is a good chance that could be broken. To each their own though.
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Post by mynameisfred on May 7, 2013 12:43:25 GMT -5
I think it's better to live together first so you can see if can can actually do it.... not get married, then realize you get on each other's last nerve This. I moved in with my boyfriend(now fiance) and we rented a small condo together for a year. Now we've had a house together for a year and a half...so we've lived together for 2 1/2 years now...you really learn a lot more about someone when you're under the same roof...things are a lot different when you see each other 24/7 vs. meet up for a few hours at a time. |
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Post by Stumpzzz on May 7, 2013 13:55:34 GMT -5
I don't think alot of people realize it, but living together is a big deal. As mentioned above, seeing each other 24-7 and dealing w/ that person can wear on you. It's a drastic difference from living alone.
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Post by tashina on May 7, 2013 14:59:30 GMT -5
I perfer to live together before marriage, better to find out before you get married whether you get along. I think it would be better than getting divorced.
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Post by Wickil on May 7, 2013 15:13:32 GMT -5
This should be mandatory, in my opinion. So many bad-idea marriages prevented just by signing a 1-year lease.
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Post by Nixola on May 7, 2013 16:20:32 GMT -5
^Seriously.
My parents are probably going to disown me when I do it, but it makes more sense to live together first.
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Post by Prime on May 7, 2013 19:07:45 GMT -5
People are on their best behavior on dates.
Living together is needed.
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Post by Prez Smith on May 7, 2013 19:08:49 GMT -5
I dont feel strongly in either direction, but I think it helps you decide if you can be around each other 24-7
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Post by Looking Glass on May 7, 2013 19:10:58 GMT -5
I would want to live together first. People hide so much, even when you think you know them.
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Post by O2 on May 7, 2013 19:14:01 GMT -5
It's against my parents beliefs, but I'm gonna have to do what's right for me when I'm ready and it will most likely be cohabitation first.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2013 17:43:20 GMT -5
I actually think it's a good idea coming from experience because any time you live with somebody there are going to be a few "hiccups" and I think it's easiest to get things worked out before you're actually married. It gives both people a chance to get used to living in the same space and time to discuss different ways of doing things before it becomes a problem.
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Post by calyta on May 8, 2013 18:54:56 GMT -5
I definitely think it's a great idea. My parents are pretty conservative and hate the idea especially because of the premarital sex stigma, but it's hard to decide whether you can live with someone without experience.
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Post by Phantom Phreak on May 8, 2013 20:51:53 GMT -5
I definitely think it's a great idea. My parents are pretty conservative and hate the idea especially because of the premarital sex stigma, but it's hard to decide whether you can live with someone without experience. Mine too, even my dad which is strange |
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