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Post by SpaceUnicorn on Dec 3, 2023 15:16:55 GMT -5
At least one person says that to me every year, but there's always an obligation to return the favor a gift if you get a gift. What do you say to these people or in these situations?
Sometimes it's after I got them a gift. Sometimes it's before when I ask what they want for Christmas.
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Post by Mister Big on Dec 3, 2023 15:19:10 GMT -5
That's just it. Maybe they don't want the obligation of getting you a gift, so they say you don't have to get them anything.
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Post by Abyssinian on Dec 3, 2023 15:19:50 GMT -5
Depends. Did you alredy buy said person a gift?
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Post by deathstar on Dec 3, 2023 15:29:30 GMT -5
"I understand, but honestly, I already bought something special for you. It's just a small token, but it's something that reminded me of our friendship. I hope you like it!"
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Post by God is Love on Dec 3, 2023 15:30:24 GMT -5
"Are you kidding? I've had something in mind for ages! It's a surprise and I can't wait to see your reaction. Don't worry, it's nothing extravagant, and YOU don't have to get ME anything."
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Post by SpaceUnicorn on Dec 3, 2023 15:30:45 GMT -5
^No, see, if I give a gift, they'll feel obligated to return the favor either way.
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Post by Abyssinian on Dec 3, 2023 15:31:00 GMT -5
Then maybe respect their wishes and don't give them anything.
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Post by Biased on Dec 3, 2023 15:33:19 GMT -5
"No need to get me anything either. "
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Post by bigballofyarn on Dec 3, 2023 15:36:36 GMT -5
Giving someone something should be about actually "giving" them a gift, but Christmas presents have turned into even exchanges where people set dollar amounts. At that point, everyone can just buy themselves what they want, and there's no point. If your friend doesn't want to feel an obligation to you, respect their wishes, and don't get them a gift. If you think your friend is saying that because they can't afford to buy you something, you can buy the gift and leave it wrapped on their doorstep without a card or tag. If the genuine wish you have is for them to get the gift, you don't need any gratitude in return.
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Post by deathstar on Dec 3, 2023 18:56:43 GMT -5
^I like your outlook.
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Post by Cohen Duplantis on Dec 3, 2023 20:32:25 GMT -5
Respect their wishes.
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Post by The Mrs. on Dec 4, 2023 5:53:02 GMT -5
Don't get them anything.
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Post by Syko Nachoman on Dec 4, 2023 8:19:17 GMT -5
"Whew, good. I wasn't planning to get you anything anyway."
(Note: Following my advice may lead to complications including sudden termination of friendship and/or a trip to the hospital. Proceed with caution.)
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Post by Tim05 on Dec 4, 2023 9:00:36 GMT -5
You can say "Oh I know I do not have to, but I wanted to show you my appreciation!"
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Post by Something Loud on Dec 4, 2023 10:03:59 GMT -5
"Whew, good. I wasn't planning to get you anything anyway." (Note: Following my advice may lead to complications including sudden termination of friendship and/or a trip to the hospital. Proceed with caution.) In on this. |
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