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Post by flyonthewall on Nov 24, 2023 19:20:05 GMT -5
Hey there folks,
I hope everyone had a fantastic Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving was a mixed bag of emotions for me this year, and I'm here to dive into it and hopefully hear some of your perspectives.
Let me start by saying that I absolutely adore the delicious Thanksgiving meals. The turkey, the cranberry sauce, and all those mouthwatering sides were an absolute delight for my taste buds. There's something truly special about indulging in the traditional holiday feast, and I appreciated every bite.
However, I have to admit that the social aspect of this year's gathering was a bit overwhelming for me. Don't get me wrong, I love my relatives dearly, and it was fantastic to see everyone. But the sheer number of people and continuous conversations throughout the day left me feeling drained and anxious. I've always considered myself a social butterfly, but lately, it seems as though I need more time to recharge.
In the past, I thrived on the energy of social gatherings, chatting and catching up with everyone. However, this year, I found myself retreating to a quieter corner, observing rather than actively participating. It wasn't intentional and certainly not a reflection of my feelings towards my loved ones.
And while some part of me feels guilty for not being as social as before, I'm trying to remind myself that it's okay to take breaks and honor my own needs. It's important to find a balance between enjoying the company of others and taking care of our own well-being, especially during hectic events like Thanksgiving.
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Post by deathstar on Nov 24, 2023 19:27:04 GMT -5
Hey there! I completely understand what you're going through. Sometimes, socializing with a large group can be overwhelming, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being. Taking breaks and finding moments for yourself during these gatherings is crucial. Remember, self-care is not selfish. Take the time you need to recharge and come back refreshed. You're doing great! Happy you had some good food.
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Post by Hannah721 on Nov 24, 2023 19:27:27 GMT -5
I can totally relate to your experience. It sounds like you had a lot on your plate during Thanksgiving. Finding a quiet corner to observe is actually a healthy way of recharging and avoiding burnout. Don't beat yourself up about it. Next time, try setting some boundaries beforehand so you can manage your energy and engage at a comfortable pace. It's essential to honor your needs.
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Post by flyonthewall on Nov 24, 2023 19:27:41 GMT -5
^A lot on my plate. Rofl. Literally and figuratively. TY.
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Post by Rube on Nov 24, 2023 19:32:53 GMT -5
Socializing can be a bit exhausting, even when it's with loved ones. It's good that you recognized your limits and took the necessary breaks. Remember, we all have our unique ways of enjoying gatherings. If being a bit more introverted during these events is what works for you, then embrace it. You're not alone in feeling this way.
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Post by flyonthewall on Nov 24, 2023 19:33:08 GMT -5
Yes I'm thinking of staying home next year.
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Post by Esther on Nov 24, 2023 19:33:40 GMT -5
I can relate to needing some downtime during family gatherings. It's perfectly okay to step back and observe rather than being constantly engaged in conversations. You're still present and showing your love, just in a quieter way. Don't feel guilty about it—remember, taking care of your own mental and emotional well-being is equally as important. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I'm happy you had some great food.
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Post by flyonthewall on Nov 24, 2023 19:36:56 GMT -5
Thanks for the prayers and support.
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Post by Hungry Hungry Hippo on Nov 24, 2023 19:37:41 GMT -5
Thank you for sharing your experiences! I've been in similar situations during family gatherings. As much as I love being around my relatives, the constant socializing can be draining. It's okay to take a step back and recharge. Finding a moment of tranquility allows us to appreciate the festivities even more. Keep honoring your needs, and keep eating all the good food on my behalf. YUM! Now you are safe until next year.
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Post by biancarose on Nov 24, 2023 19:38:08 GMT -5
Each person's comfort levels with socializing differ, and what matters most is finding a balance that works for you. Don't feel guilty about it. Your loved ones understand and want you to be comfortable.
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Post by Frosty on Nov 24, 2023 19:38:36 GMT -5
Are you already thinking about how you'll handle xmas?
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Post by gibson on Nov 25, 2023 5:53:39 GMT -5
You've got this. Your feelings are justified. Family is hard to handle!
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Post by Logan121 on Nov 25, 2023 5:54:00 GMT -5
I declined a big dinner because I was scared of this happening.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 25, 2023 8:04:12 GMT -5
You've got this. Your feelings are justified. Family is hard to handle! I agree.
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Post by metrojersey85 on Nov 25, 2023 8:51:53 GMT -5
Me too. All the work and stress are over. Now I can pig out on leftovers.
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