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Post by Raven on Apr 8, 2020 8:53:43 GMT -5
I don't want to feel used, but all these people have good hearts. So that's why I don't want to cut them off.
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Post by aur0rafungirl84 on Apr 8, 2020 8:54:11 GMT -5
I understand. You are hoping they'll change and go back to how they were. Unfortunately, that might not happen and you can't make them.
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Post by Raven on Apr 8, 2020 8:54:53 GMT -5
All of you are right and I appreciate the honesty with all my heart. I'll analyze every case and go from there. Right now, I don't want any of them to be just faint memories of the past.
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Post by aur0rafungirl84 on Apr 8, 2020 8:56:01 GMT -5
Have faith first. Question second. Trust yourself. Know yourself. You don't have to let people hurt you is all I mean.
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Post by Dependable Dog on Apr 8, 2020 8:57:15 GMT -5
"No matter how many times a snake sheds its skin, it will always be a snake. Think of that before letting someone back into your life."
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Post by Biased on Apr 8, 2020 9:43:31 GMT -5
It's OK to stand up for yourself. You don't have to let someone use you. Those who deserve to stay in your life will stay for free.
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Post by Neo on Apr 8, 2020 10:01:22 GMT -5
You have my support and we would never treat you like that here.
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Post by Takamaka on Apr 9, 2020 14:43:05 GMT -5
I'm embarking on a new journey with someone today. I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt. I am having faith that it will be better this time.
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Post by Raven on Apr 24, 2020 19:33:11 GMT -5
So I haven't talked to the person in question. It hasn't really been intentional. He hasn't talked to me and asked me for favors. I haven't reached out either.
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Post by Aaron on Apr 24, 2020 19:33:33 GMT -5
So I haven't talked to the person in question. It hasn't really been intentional. He hasn't talked to me and asked me for favors. I haven't reached out either. How are you feeling about that? |
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Post by Raven on Apr 24, 2020 19:33:52 GMT -5
Mixed. I want to talk to him, but I want him to reach out and be friendly, not reach out only when he wants something.
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Post by Aaron on Apr 24, 2020 19:34:22 GMT -5
So you are happy he isn't asking you for favors, but upset that he's not being a friend? Is that correct?
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Post by Raven on Apr 24, 2020 19:35:18 GMT -5
Aaron, That's exactly how I feel. We used to be great friends before he developed this "user" attitude.
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Post by Aaron on Apr 24, 2020 19:35:52 GMT -5
I'm really proud of you for being strong. Do you think you will stay strong if he texts you and asks for a favor?
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Post by Raven on Apr 24, 2020 19:36:41 GMT -5
I think it depends on the favor. I want to be a helpful friend, but I'm not going to hurt myself anymore.
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