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Post by Sweet Dreams Are Made of These on May 12, 2017 8:09:10 GMT -5
How do you guys move on from a hurtful ex? Say things ended
badly and really unfairly to you. How do you just forget? I
don't want to have to pretend like he never existed, and I
still have urges to check his Facebook, or send in a good
morning text message. I haven't called or texted, but there's
this feeling like something is missing from my life without him.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 12, 2017 12:41:05 GMT -5
You need time and distance. That's really it. The less you talk to him, the less you'll think about him.
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Post by Sweet Dreams Are Made of These on May 12, 2017 12:41:33 GMT -5
I think what I really want to know is how I convinced myself that that relationship was normal.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 12, 2017 12:42:55 GMT -5
Because you loved parts of him, so you tolerated all of him. You ignored the bad parts because the good was really good to you.
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Post by Sweet Dreams Are Made of These on May 12, 2017 12:43:40 GMT -5
So am I just really stupid for letting a guy emotionally **** me over? Who
does that? I feel so pathetic especially since he was so hurtful and I still
want him back in my life. I don't want this to be the end of things like this.
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Post by ThreadKilla on May 12, 2017 12:44:09 GMT -5
So am I just really stupid for letting a guy emotionally **** me over? Who does that? I feel so pathetic especially since he was so hurtful and I still want him back in my life. I don't want this to be the end of things like this. Do you actually miss HIM, or do you miss the love that he gave you when he was actually being a good guy? |
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Post by Sweet Dreams Are Made of These on May 12, 2017 12:44:59 GMT -5
Isn't that the same thing? I don't get how guys or people just flip a
switch and change into a completrely different person. It makes me
want to ask, "hey did you ever love me at all, how can you make up a
fight like this and now all of a sudden you hate me?"
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Post by pastelspectre on May 12, 2017 19:38:08 GMT -5
managing to get over someone emotionally is very difficult, especially if you were in a relationship. i can relate. i'm still not somewhat over one of my exes i dated back when i was 15/16, and i'm 19 now. it all depends on yourself and what you do. what i suggest is blocking or removing them from all social media, blocking them from texting you, and removing all pictures you have of them, even screenshots of old conversations if you have those.
it's really difficult to do it, but if you're willing to put in the time and effort and be patient with yourself and your feelings, then you can do it. i believe in you! it does take time, so don't feel frustrated or angry at yourself if it's taking longer than you anticipate. everyone gets over things at their own pace. i trust you can do the same.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 12, 2017 19:51:11 GMT -5
managing to get over someone emotionally is very difficult, especially if you were in a relationship. i can relate. i'm still not somewhat over one of my exes i dated back when i was 15/16, and i'm 19 now. it all depends on yourself and what you do. what i suggest is blocking or removing them from all social media, blocking them from texting you, and removing all pictures you have of them, even screenshots of old conversations if you have those. it's really difficult to do it, but if you're willing to put in the time and effort and be patient with yourself and your feelings, then you can do it. i believe in you! it does take time, so don't feel frustrated or angry at yourself if it's taking longer than you anticipate. everyone gets over things at their own pace. i trust you can do the same. very solid advice loving someone for a long time doesn't make you weak or pathetic, it just means you have a heart. |
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Post by Sweet Dreams Are Made of These on May 12, 2017 20:33:38 GMT -5
Thanks guys. It'll just take time.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 12, 2017 20:33:49 GMT -5
Time is normal. Time can heal all.
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Post by Sweet Dreams Are Made of These on May 12, 2017 20:34:21 GMT -5
managing to get over someone emotionally is very difficult, especially if you were in a relationship. i can relate. i'm still not somewhat over one of my exes i dated back when i was 15/16, and i'm 19 now. it all depends on yourself and what you do. what i suggest is blocking or removing them from all social media, blocking them from texting you, and removing all pictures you have of them, even screenshots of old conversations if you have those. it's really difficult to do it, but if you're willing to put in the time and effort and be patient with yourself and your feelings, then you can do it. i believe in you! it does take time, so don't feel frustrated or angry at yourself if it's taking longer than you anticipate. everyone gets over things at their own pace. i trust you can do the same. TY very much for your advice and help. |
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Post by pastelspectre on May 13, 2017 23:16:24 GMT -5
no problem! i just want to see all my friends happy  |
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