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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:55:28 GMT -5
All I'm saying is you can't expect a guy to be devoted to you if you aren't giving him 100% too. If you weren't his GF, he didn't cheat on you, or dump you. And maybe you'd interfere with his new relationship. So I'm just supposed to never talk to him again? I think the initial sting will wear off. I think the beginning stages of their love will wear off. And if he ends up marrying her, you have to accept it. If they break up, I'd let him come to you. Don't carry a torch for someone who tried to burn up your candle. |
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Post by Kevin Kurson on May 7, 2017 10:10:08 GMT -5
Don't put up with that sh*t. Move on!
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Post by mynameisfred on May 7, 2017 11:19:25 GMT -5
He doesn't love you if he didn't choose you. People don't just choose to be without someone they love for someone they don't love. It's harsh, but maybe you were convient and the best option and as soon as something better came along, bam. He's done.
The only semi positive thing I can say is most people aren't sadistic or out to hurt you for pleasure. He's probably just very selfish, and putting his own feelings before your own. And honestly, it's better you find out now than he lead you on and attempt to keep you on the back burner in case his current best thing doesn't work out.
My suggestion is to do your best to move on. It won't be easy, but waiting around for this guy is a huge mistake. I know you put a lot of dreams into this picture you had in your head, but there's no reason to believe there isn't something as good or even better in your future. Perhaps you've missed a lot of miraculous opportunities because you were tied up with this man and not in the right mind space to meet some really great people.
Best of luck to you. I hope you find the type of love you want.
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Post by lucy hanson on May 7, 2017 13:26:37 GMT -5
It's doesn't have to be all or nothing ever, but he decided he wanted nothing. Don't beg to have back someone who treats you like trash. You don't deserve to be abused or mistreated. Spend your time with mutual affection, not a one-sided affair.
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Post by Neo on May 7, 2017 16:23:22 GMT -5
Don't let them suck anymore life out of you. Live colorfully. Live for yourself.
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