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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:48:12 GMT -5
How does a guy just dump you like trash? One day he's in love with you and the next you're nothing and he's "under" someone else? How can I go from all or nothing? Why does it have to be all or nothing?
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:48:31 GMT -5
Better question, why would you even want him back into your life?
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:48:59 GMT -5
I want closure or I want him back because I know he loves me and I don't understand what happened. We have over a decade of history as friends.
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:49:27 GMT -5
So did a male friend cut you out or was it a lover or a male friend that turned into a lover?
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:50:01 GMT -5
So did a male friend cut you out or was it a lover or a male friend that turned into a lover? A male love interest. We never has an "official" relationship I guess. We've been in love for a long time. |
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:50:19 GMT -5
So why were you never together if there was mutual love?
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:50:30 GMT -5
Distance was a factor. We just weren't physically together.
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:50:54 GMT -5
Were you involved in an LDR or again, just friends?
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:51:22 GMT -5
No we weren't in a long distance relationship.
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:51:58 GMT -5
No we weren't in a long distance relationship. Sorry if I'm an idiot. What were you to each other? If you were in love, why weren't you in some type of loving relationship, and did you have a fight? |
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:52:31 GMT -5
No we weren't in a long distance relationship. Sorry if I'm an idiot. What were you to each other? If you were in love, why weren't you in some type of loving relationship, and did you have a fight? I guess there was always the fear of loss and things just not being as perfect as we'd built up in our heads for so long. |
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:52:52 GMT -5
Maybe he got tired of waiting around for a label. So.... he found a girl who was ready to accept him.
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:53:13 GMT -5
Who said I wasn't ready? Whho said *I* didn't love him?
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Post by REBdomine on May 7, 2017 5:54:06 GMT -5
All I'm saying is you can't expect a guy to be devoted to you if you aren't giving him 100% too. If you weren't his GF, he didn't cheat on you, or dump you. And maybe you'd interfere with his new relationship.
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Post by metrojersey85 on May 7, 2017 5:54:29 GMT -5
All I'm saying is you can't expect a guy to be devoted to you if you aren't giving him 100% too. If you weren't his GF, he didn't cheat on you, or dump you. And maybe you'd interfere with his new relationship. So I'm just supposed to never talk to him again? |
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