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Post by Rita Howard on May 2, 2017 15:06:51 GMT -5
Even with age, relationships just don't get easier. Men don't seem to grow up. I'm always getting disappointed.
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Post by xea989 on May 2, 2017 15:07:14 GMT -5
I feel like men need to be defended a little on here lately.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 2, 2017 15:07:31 GMT -5
You cant defend men you don't know. The ones in my life just keep ****ing me over.
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Post by browneyedsugar on May 2, 2017 15:08:05 GMT -5
Did anything specific happen? Old relationship? New one? Just venting?
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Post by Phreck on May 2, 2017 15:08:05 GMT -5
What happened Rita?
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Post by Rita Howard on May 2, 2017 15:08:38 GMT -5
You know, it's just the same one guy over and over. I always think he changed when he hasn't.
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Post by xea989 on May 2, 2017 15:09:13 GMT -5
I have a thought that might actually help you even if it sounds negative.
"We see what we want to see."
Maybe HE never, ever changed, and it's good that you finally realize that.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 2, 2017 15:09:51 GMT -5
I get what you are saying XEA, but it makes me feel so stupid.
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Post by xea989 on May 2, 2017 15:10:31 GMT -5
It's not stupid to love someone and want the best for them.
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Post by Andrew on May 2, 2017 15:11:18 GMT -5
Think I'm finally gonna have to admit that guys are about 10 years emotionally less mature.  |
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Post by browneyedsugar on May 2, 2017 15:11:42 GMT -5
Now that your eyes are open, don't let him use you again. You're a great lady.
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Post by Rita Howard on May 2, 2017 15:11:58 GMT -5
It's hard. There's such a fine line being helpful and being abused.
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Post by browneyedsugar on May 2, 2017 15:12:23 GMT -5
It's hard. There's such a fine line being helpful and being abused. True, but YOU decide where the line is - not him. |
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Post by Apricky on May 2, 2017 21:18:18 GMT -5
*hugs* lady friend.
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Post by pastelspectre on May 2, 2017 22:33:10 GMT -5
sometimes we see the good in people, even when we shouldn't..if that makes sense? or we're so blind to who they really are bc of love. it happens to a lot of people, you're not stupid. i'm here if you want to talk though.
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