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Post by Rita Howard on Feb 22, 2017 6:04:21 GMT -5
Whoever the **** invented that eneds to die slowly and painfully. How is ignoring me supposed to make me feel better? IT KEEPS ME UP AT NIGHT.
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:13:17 GMT -5
I don't think this has ever worked on me either. Luckily my husband had other ways to prove his worth than "can't have this."
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Post by Rita Howard on Feb 22, 2017 6:16:19 GMT -5
It's painful and annoying. Like I stare at my phone trying to make it ring sometimes. Lmao.
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Post by Jaxon on Feb 22, 2017 6:16:40 GMT -5
I feel like people eventually give up when you ignore them. It doesn't make them want you more.
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:20:35 GMT -5
It's painful and annoying. Like I stare at my phone trying to make it ring sometimes. Lmao. Aw, if it makes you feel any better...I was so hung up on my husband when I first met him that I would do the same...and he wasn't even playing hard to get...was just busy. Made me feel reallly pathetic. ;p. ;( |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:21:11 GMT -5
I feel like people eventually give up when you ignore them. It doesn't make them want you more. Agreed! |
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Post by Juliet Long on Feb 22, 2017 6:27:24 GMT -5
It's painful and annoying. Like I stare at my phone trying to make it ring sometimes. Lmao. Aw, if it makes you feel any better...I was so hung up on my husband when I first met him that I would do the same...and he wasn't even playing hard to get...was just busy. Made me feel reallly pathetic. ;p. ;( I've done this. I always rationalized, "It takes 5 seconds to text goodmorning or goodnight" |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:30:54 GMT -5
Aw, if it makes you feel any better...I was so hung up on my husband when I first met him that I would do the same...and he wasn't even playing hard to get...was just busy. Made me feel reallly pathetic. ;p. ;( I've done this. I always rationalized, "It takes 5 seconds to text goodmorning or goodnight" Yeah...I just did it like 24/7. Was constantly desperately excited/impatient to hear from him and other than classes I didn't have much else going on to distract me or look forward to. |
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Post by Juliet Long on Feb 22, 2017 6:34:12 GMT -5
I've done this. I always rationalized, "It takes 5 seconds to text goodmorning or goodnight" Yeah...I just did it like 24/7. Was constantly desperately excited/impatient to hear from him and other than classes I didn't have much else going on to distract me or look forward to. What finally made it better for you? |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:39:59 GMT -5
Yeah...I just did it like 24/7. Was constantly desperately excited/impatient to hear from him and other than classes I didn't have much else going on to distract me or look forward to. What finally made it better for you? Nothing I guess. It was a long time ago but I think I really only stopped when I moved home and we started spending every free waking second together, which was a lot because at the time I wasn't working at all and he worked early/short days. Being home I guess gave me the feeling of more control. (We were across country from eachother when we met/started dating.) It also probably didn't help my obsession that he broke up with a girl to persue me and she was still randomly showing up at his house. |
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Post by Juliet Long on Feb 22, 2017 6:43:38 GMT -5
What finally made it better for you? Nothing I guess. It was a long time ago but I think I really only stopped when I moved home and we started spending every free waking second together, which was a lot because at the time I wasn't working at all and he worked early/short days. Being home I guess gave me the feeling of more control. (We were across country from eachother when we met/started dating.) It also probably didn't help my obsession that he broke up with a girl to persue me and she was still randomly showing up at his house. I'd be calling her a whore in my head at every second. |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:49:47 GMT -5
Nothing I guess. It was a long time ago but I think I really only stopped when I moved home and we started spending every free waking second together, which was a lot because at the time I wasn't working at all and he worked early/short days. Being home I guess gave me the feeling of more control. (We were across country from eachother when we met/started dating.) It also probably didn't help my obsession that he broke up with a girl to persue me and she was still randomly showing up at his house. I'd be calling her a whore in my head at every second. Oh I did. For a lot of reasons. But honestly in hind sight I couldn't blame her. They were together in HS and had been together 6 years before he dumped her. And she had it in her head it was a break and she could win him back. And I'd probably have done the same in her shoes, but she pulled a lot of shady sh*t once she found out he left her to date someone else. And while I was still across country it made me extra uneasy. She actually was showing up at his house while he was out of state visiting me. His dad was really confused why she was walking in randomly. No knock or anything. |
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Post by Juliet Long on Feb 22, 2017 6:52:12 GMT -5
Why'd she have a key?  |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 22, 2017 6:53:38 GMT -5
Why'd she have a key? She didn't. But his dad leaves the door unlocked when he's home. |
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Post by Juliet Long on Feb 22, 2017 6:59:33 GMT -5
Why'd she have a key? She didn't. But his dad leaves the door unlocked when he's home. Here burglar, take my TV and kill me. |
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