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Post by abbybaby on Feb 18, 2017 10:19:14 GMT -5
LSS
Long-term relationship has hit a rock a while back.
I am very in love with my ex and he is very in love with me.
I don't feel right just walking away.
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Post by Abyssinian on Feb 18, 2017 10:19:43 GMT -5
Well, bluntly, you can't string both of them along. You HAVE to pick one.
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 18, 2017 10:25:14 GMT -5
Sounds like you made your choice. Follow through and accept the consequences.
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Post by abbybaby on Feb 18, 2017 10:29:29 GMT -5
Sounds like you made your choice. Follow through and accept the consequences. I don't feel like I can just walk away from the BF tho. |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 18, 2017 10:31:12 GMT -5
Sounds like you made your choice. Follow through and accept the consequences. I don't feel like I can just walk away from the BF tho. Why not? |
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Post by abbybaby on Feb 18, 2017 10:32:45 GMT -5
I don't feel like I can just walk away from the BF tho. Why not? We've been together for year. And I Can't see never talkking to him again. |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 18, 2017 10:39:33 GMT -5
We've been together for year. And I Can't see never talkking to him again. Okay. I heard somewhere that it takes half the time of a relationship to get over that relationship. I'm not sure how old you both are, but you arnt doing him any favors staying with him if you don't want to be with him. It's unfair to stay with him for your own desire to remain friends. I understand how hard it is. I left a bf of 5 years to persue my now husband, and it was really hard. But he moved on and seems very happy now. If you don't want to be with him, let him go. Tell him your fears. Be honest with him. If he's important to you tell him that. Tell him you still want him in your life and than hope he wants the same. But do not keep him around for selfish reasons. |
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Post by abbybaby on Feb 18, 2017 10:45:19 GMT -5
We've been together for year. And I Can't see never talkking to him again. Okay. I heard somewhere that it takes half the time of a relationship to get over that relationship. I'm not sure how old you both are, but you arnt doing him any favors staying with him if you don't want to be with him. It's unfair to stay with him for your own desire to remain friends. I understand how hard it is. I left a bf of 5 years to persue my now husband, and it was really hard. But he moved on and seems very happy now. If you don't want to be with him, let him go. Tell him your fears. Be honest with him. If he's important to you tell him that. Tell him you still want him in your life and than hope he wants the same. But do not keep him around for selfish reasons. TY We kinda talked about it and he cried at the thought of me leaving. I know I shouldn't stay to keep him happy. That's pity. But I wouldn't be doing that. I actually love two men at the same time, but in completely different ways. |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 18, 2017 10:48:33 GMT -5
I know it's hard to cause someone you care about pain.
I'm assuming the way in which you love the current boyfriend is not romantically?
What ended things with your ex? How long have you two been broken up?
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Post by abbybaby on Feb 18, 2017 11:35:23 GMT -5
I know it's hard to cause someone you care about pain. I'm assuming the way in which you love the current boyfriend is not romantically? What ended things with your ex? How long have you two been broken up? The ex and I never broke up lol. We got separated in times before cell phones. Once things became easier, we picked up where we left off. |
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Post by mynameisfred on Feb 18, 2017 12:31:41 GMT -5
I know it's hard to cause someone you care about pain. I'm assuming the way in which you love the current boyfriend is not romantically? What ended things with your ex? How long have you two been broken up? The ex and I never broke up lol. We got separated in times before cell phones. Once things became easier, we picked up where we left off. Well how long ago were you seperated? And how long ago did you reconnect? Does he feel the same way towards you as you feel towards him? |
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Post by lucy hanson on Feb 18, 2017 13:17:16 GMT -5
See who proposes first.
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Post by Something Loud on Feb 18, 2017 13:44:07 GMT -5
See if you don't have to be exclusive. Choose one after you know what you feel.
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Post by abbybaby on Feb 18, 2017 19:47:56 GMT -5
The ex bf feels the same and says he wants me all to himself.
Separated for YEARS.
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on Feb 21, 2017 21:57:37 GMT -5
Sounds like you made your choice. Follow through and accept the consequences. I don't feel like I can just walk away from the BF tho. This post literally says everything. You didn't say,"I didn't make a decision yet." You didn't say,"I'm not sure yet." You just said,"I'm afraid of the consequences of my choice." Honestly, I was afraid when my husband and I first got together as well, even though we had a deep, undeniable connection. I was afraid he would hurt me or leave me. I was afraid of what would happen. But you can't get anything good unless you take those risks. I can't guarantee you'll be happy, but you seem certain of what you believe you should do. Just scared to actually go through with it. |
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