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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 4, 2016 15:36:19 GMT -5
Would love to never hear another crying baby in public And before anyone tries to go all PC, if I had a fussy-psycho child, I wouldn't bring it to quiet, civilized places. You were once a fussy, psycho child, but luckily your mother wasn't a horrible person and let you go out in public anyway. All of us were once those psycho, running around children, but they choose to conviently forget because loud noises irritate them. Being in public means you have to put up with other people. If you can't handle putting up with other people and noise, stay at home. |
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 4, 2016 15:37:57 GMT -5
^They should just be banned from running around in public. They aren't wild animals. I'm sure you're against childhood obesity, right? Well, tell kids to sit still all the time and not exercise makes them obese. Running around is natural for kids. |
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Post by Tim05 on May 4, 2016 16:25:29 GMT -5
Would love to never hear another crying baby in public And before anyone tries to go all PC, if I had a fussy-psycho child, I wouldn't bring it to quiet, civilized places. You were once a fussy, psycho child, but luckily your mother wasn't a horrible person and let you go out in public anyway. All of us were once those psycho, running around children, but they choose to conviently forget because loud noises irritate them. Being in public means you have to put up with other people. If you can't handle putting up with other people and noise, stay at home. My parents taught me how to behave in different situations. Proper behavior in church or in a restaurant was different than acceptable behavior when I was outside in the backyard with friends.
If I was not acting appropriately to my surroundings, my parents corrected the action. They didn't beat the crap out of me for being loud and obnoxious while playing outside. They would discipline me if I was loud and obnoxious while at a restaurant though. It's the only way kids learn, by respecting boundaries.
A lot of parents aren't willing to create boundaries it seems these days, because they don't want to discipline their precious child. In reality, discipline is the #1 most important thing for a young child's development. It's the same with any animal.
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Post by Zero Dade Cool on May 4, 2016 16:38:22 GMT -5
Parents should teach their kids how to behave. I didn't throw sh*tfits in public. I wasn't allowed to. I was taught manners. Parents need to teach their children how to behave in public places.
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Post by cherrydarlin999 on May 4, 2016 16:38:58 GMT -5
Yes babies are fussy, but most parents know how to stop their baby from crying.
It's irresponsible to let a baby scream, or a child run around a store throwing a fit.
Please tell me you are joking.
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Post by Zero Dade Cool on May 4, 2016 16:39:57 GMT -5
You were once a fussy, psycho child, but luckily your mother wasn't a horrible person and let you go out in public anyway. All of us were once those psycho, running around children, but they choose to conviently forget because loud noises irritate them. Being in public means you have to put up with other people. If you can't handle putting up with other people and noise, stay at home. My parents taught me how to behave in different situations. Proper behavior in church or in a restaurant was different than acceptable behavior when I was outside in the backyard with friends.
If I was not acting appropriately to my surroundings, my parents corrected the action. They didn't beat the crap out of me for being loud and obnoxious while playing outside. They would discipline me if I was loud and obnoxious while at a restaurant though. It's the only way kids learn, by respecting boundaries.
A lot of parents aren't willing to create boundaries it seems these days, because they don't want to discipline their precious child. In reality, discipline is the #1 most important thing for a young child's development. It's the same with any animal.
Exactly, playing and yelling at a PRIVATE home is way different from throwing a fit in a restaurant, or on a plane, or anywhere in public. There is no reason we should let kids grow up thinking they are entitled to everything. |
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Post by cherrydarlin999 on May 4, 2016 16:40:59 GMT -5
Would love to never hear another crying baby in public And before anyone tries to go all PC, if I had a fussy-psycho child, I wouldn't bring it to quiet, civilized places. You were once a fussy, psycho child, but luckily your mother wasn't a horrible person and let you go out in public anyway. All of us were once those psycho, running around children, but they choose to conviently forget because loud noises irritate them. Being in public means you have to put up with other people. If you can't handle putting up with other people and noise, stay at home. Not really. If I started to act up in public, I would be carried out. I was never allowed to throw a tantrum in public. |
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 4, 2016 16:42:11 GMT -5
You were once a fussy, psycho child, but luckily your mother wasn't a horrible person and let you go out in public anyway. All of us were once those psycho, running around children, but they choose to conviently forget because loud noises irritate them. Being in public means you have to put up with other people. If you can't handle putting up with other people and noise, stay at home. My parents taught me how to behave in different situations. Proper behavior in church or in a restaurant was different than acceptable behavior when I was outside in the backyard with friends.
If I was not acting appropriately to my surroundings, my parents corrected the action. They didn't beat the crap out of me for being loud and obnoxious while playing outside. They would discipline me if I was loud and obnoxious while at a restaurant though. It's the only way kids learn, by respecting boundaries.
A lot of parents aren't willing to create boundaries it seems these days, because they don't want to discipline their precious child. In reality, discipline is the #1 most important thing for a young child's development. It's the same with any animal.
No, patience is the #1 most important thing and also caring about your child's needs. A church or any kind of place where a speech is happening or a movie is different than other places, I agree. But not a restaurant. I do not understand any of you, even a little bit. When I am in public places, not only do kids run and scream around me, they also play with my hair (this has happened to me many times), stare at me, and often talk to me. None of it bothers me. Because they are kids. I'd get it if you guys were irritated because kids did the things to you that they do to me, but lots of people are talking in a restaurant and being obnoxious, you just choose to focus on only the kids. |
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Post by Penny & Me on May 4, 2016 16:42:30 GMT -5
um no, my parents taught us all manners from young
I have no memory of being a baby so I can only speak from my younger sister
My mom knew how to calm her down within minutes as a baby and if she tried to throw a tantrum over a toy or something in a store, we left. She learned proper behavior.
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Post by cherrydarlin999 on May 4, 2016 16:43:34 GMT -5
Kids are banned from a lot of public places now. Thank god. They were banned a few years after smoking indoors for the same reasons.
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Post by Penny & Me on May 4, 2016 16:44:27 GMT -5
Why are they touching your hair? Lol..
I don't let them get anywhere near me.
Restaurants are nice places. We aren't talking Burger King here, where even adults will at off the floor.
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 4, 2016 16:46:34 GMT -5
My parents taught me how to behave in different situations. Proper behavior in church or in a restaurant was different than acceptable behavior when I was outside in the backyard with friends.
If I was not acting appropriately to my surroundings, my parents corrected the action. They didn't beat the crap out of me for being loud and obnoxious while playing outside. They would discipline me if I was loud and obnoxious while at a restaurant though. It's the only way kids learn, by respecting boundaries.
A lot of parents aren't willing to create boundaries it seems these days, because they don't want to discipline their precious child. In reality, discipline is the #1 most important thing for a young child's development. It's the same with any animal.
Exactly, playing and yelling at a PRIVATE home is way different from throwing a fit in a restaurant, or on a plane, or anywhere in public. There is no reason we should let kids grow up thinking they are entitled to everything. Seriously? You're the one who sounds entitled right now. You want everyone in public to behave just the way YOU want them to behave. You want them to cater to YOU. Children can't use words. They throw tantrums and cry because they have a very bad grasp on English and are still learning how to communicate. And what are you expecting people to do in an airplane? You can't leave an airplane. Do you want them to parachute off of it so you can get some quiet time. Listen, I'd be terrified on an airplane and any noises would make it worse, but I'm not self absorbed, so I don't expect A CHILD to cater to my needs and be quiet when they are helpless and have no idea how to communicate well or how to feed themselves. They aren't adults. They shouldn't be expected to behave like adults or hidden in a house all day. |
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Post by Zero Dade Cool on May 4, 2016 16:47:11 GMT -5
Just an opinion, but people who let their kids scream and run around in public are the same as people who let their dogs run around town, barking until 3am.
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 4, 2016 16:48:15 GMT -5
Yes babies are fussy, but most parents know how to stop their baby from crying. It's irresponsible to let a baby scream, or a child run around a store throwing a fit. Please tell me you are joking. I'm not joking and it's not irresponsible. It's better if a parent comfort their kids, but kids have emotions and sometimes they just need to cry things out. |
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 4, 2016 16:51:53 GMT -5
Why are they touching your hair? Lol.. I don't let them get anywhere near me. Restaurants are nice places. We aren't talking Burger King here, where even adults will at off the floor. I just look super nice to people including children. You know how most women complain they have resting b**ch face? I must have something the opposite of that because people bug me all the time in public. Adults will have random conversations with me and kids will as well. I had a group of 12 year old girls once run up to me and tell me that a creepy man was talking to them and they asked for my protection. And little kids just turn around sometimes when I am in booths at restaurants and start playing with my long hair. They are just curious I think and their mothers usually look humiliated by it. |
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