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Post by Mr. White on Jun 2, 2015 5:41:00 GMT -5
Do you believe in it?
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Post by Livesindaw00ds on Jun 2, 2015 5:41:24 GMT -5
No but I believe in LUST at first site.
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Post by Nixola on Jun 2, 2015 5:41:33 GMT -5
I think you can be so infatuated that you think it's love.
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Post by Non-Conquering Wolf on Jun 2, 2015 5:41:56 GMT -5
Not really. You can't love someone you know nothing about.
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Post by Mr. White on Jun 2, 2015 5:42:13 GMT -5
So none of you think you can look into someone's eyes and have an immediate connection?
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Post by Livesindaw00ds on Jun 2, 2015 5:42:27 GMT -5
I do, but it's lust.
Oooh pretty eyes.
That's not love.
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Post by Nixola on Jun 2, 2015 5:42:41 GMT -5
I don't think God is at work if I find someone attractive, no.
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Post by Non-Conquering Wolf on Jun 2, 2015 5:42:58 GMT -5
I really want to hear the opposite argument and why.
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Post by Mr. White on Jun 2, 2015 5:43:10 GMT -5
^Me too. That's why I made the thread.
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Post by Tim05 on Jun 2, 2015 9:49:20 GMT -5
Not really. Infatuation at first site, definitely. Love has to be way more emotional than just looking at someone.
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on Jun 2, 2015 10:45:58 GMT -5
I don't know if I believe in love at first sight, but it kind of fits how I found my husband. And you guys want the opposite kind of argument, so I'll give it a try.
I am an observer of people. I often look at body language, the way people speak, what people talk about, how they act, etc. when I first meet them and make judgments about them based on that.
I first met my husband through our mutual friend. They were all hanging out and I was invited to come along. It was obvious a lot of the guys thought they were alpha males in the group and they started being kind of an asshole to him. I am very turned off by guys who think they are alpha males. I prefer nice guys. And I could tell, by the way they were treating him, that he was the nice guy in the group and that I would enjoy dating him if given the opportunity.
I flirted with him and got a huge crush on him immediately. About a week later, he was kissing me. I had been dating other guys at the time. They were guys I was attracted to and enjoyed kissing, but there was something different about my husband. He made me disinterested in kissing other men and it was such a strong connection that we had with each other that it was frightening to me. I kept trying to pull away, but my heart kept screaming at me to stop.
He told me he loved me three days later and I said it back. We moved in together after only a week of being together.
It frightened both of us, to be honest. We acted out and hurt each other in the beginning because it was so intense. He had been told by a fortune teller that his friend who introduced us to each other would introduce him to his soul-mate during the time of year we met. And he got scared he was only feeling this strong of connection with me because he had been influenced to by the fortune teller.
But neither of us could fight it. We just understand each other so much that from almost the beginning, we've been able to say words that don't make sense to other people, like "one, one, two, two, four." And even though we didn't discuss what those words meant with each other ahead of time, we both know what the other person means by it and it's not "one, one, two, two, four." A lot of our weird, secret communications have had to do with numbers for some reason.
People have told me from the beginning that it's annoying to be around the two of us together because we are so in sync that it's like talking to the same person and that it makes them want to throw up. I honestly don't think I could be happier with someone else.
Our relationship isn't perfect, we have our struggles at times, but from the beginning we had this weird understanding of each other that we shouldn't have had.
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Post by Mister Big on Jun 2, 2015 21:03:51 GMT -5
ADIAW just wins this thread.
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