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Post by Tampaboy19N on Sept 25, 2010 18:55:05 GMT -5
Did you get along with your family when you were young? What about now? Is/was there anyone you cant stand? How did you deal with it?
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Post by Apricky on Sept 25, 2010 18:55:59 GMT -5
Nothing back then. Got along with everyone as a kid.
But having HORRIBLE problems with my mother now - but no I dont hate her.
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Post by Aaron on Sept 25, 2010 19:01:35 GMT -5
Yes there are people in my immediate family who I hate, but I dont want to get into it.
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Post by browneyedsugar on Sept 25, 2010 19:01:58 GMT -5
I think I fought more with them when I was young
we've all learned to settle our differences now
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Post by taylorLikedmySHirt on Sept 25, 2010 19:02:28 GMT -5
I had more physical fights as a kid, and more verbal fights now.
It never ends IMO
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Post by Apricky on Sept 25, 2010 19:02:41 GMT -5
Aaron, can I ask how you deal with it?
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Post by Chris Johnson on Sept 25, 2010 19:02:59 GMT -5
I've cut most of my family out. Dont see them, dont talk to them, dont care about them.
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Post by Aaron on Sept 25, 2010 19:03:10 GMT -5
Ignoring seems to be the only method that works.
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Post by taylorLikedmySHirt on Sept 25, 2010 19:03:56 GMT -5
Yup, family issues are the hardest to resolve.
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Post by ♪ *~ Lola ~* ♪ on Sept 25, 2010 19:04:50 GMT -5
"Tell me who admires you and loves you, and I will tell you who you are " is what my dad always said.
But he never loved me, not then, not now. And I still dont know what he meant by that.
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Post by Aaron on Sept 25, 2010 19:05:08 GMT -5
Mine had a quote too:
True love is the parent of humility.
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Post by ♪ *~ Lola ~* ♪ on Sept 25, 2010 19:05:45 GMT -5
I think it's just BS to make us shut up and think
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Post by Chris Johnson on Sept 25, 2010 19:06:35 GMT -5
We are nearer loving those who hate us than those who love us more than we wish.
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Post by Fatal Rewind on Sept 25, 2010 19:36:33 GMT -5
Me and my sister fought occasionally growing up, but all kids do that.
Not going to go into my parents' mentally illnesses and trying to deal with them.
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Post by God is Love on Sept 25, 2010 19:37:41 GMT -5
There is some mental illness in my family too. I dont know how to deal with it. I kinda avoid it.
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