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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 4:27:56 GMT -5
I think I disappoint myself so much because I try to be everyone else's rock and please everyone else. It's a big strain on myself and it sucks.
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Post by Ʈiffanƴ on May 28, 2024 4:28:17 GMT -5
Do you think your goal is to practice more self-care?
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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 4:28:24 GMT -5
Yes 100%
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Post by ProneToEpisodes on May 28, 2024 5:39:41 GMT -5
You can't save the world if you can't save yourself first.
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Post by Dependable Dog on May 28, 2024 5:40:08 GMT -5
It's not your responsibility to fix everyone else. And it's not your fault (generally) if they're all broken.
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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 6:38:18 GMT -5
I can't turn it off. I want everyone to approve of me.
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Post by Audacity on May 28, 2024 7:08:41 GMT -5
Is it literally everyone or just some people?
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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 7:08:59 GMT -5
I guess a few select people matter more than the entire world.
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Post by Sandra on May 28, 2024 7:09:26 GMT -5
Why does their approval matter so much to you?
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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 7:09:45 GMT -5
Not just approval. It's more about making sure they're never hurt and also that I am never the cause.
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Post by Sandra on May 28, 2024 7:10:05 GMT -5
Maybe the kind of thing to only worry about if there is a misunderstanding? And then you apologize?
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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 7:10:20 GMT -5
No see my problem is the constant worry and doubt.
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Post by Sandra on May 28, 2024 7:10:32 GMT -5
Is there guilt over something you actually did?
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Post by Ignored on May 28, 2024 7:10:58 GMT -5
Do you have 'deeper feelings' for any of these friends?
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Post by rosequartz on May 28, 2024 7:11:10 GMT -5
I don't think so. I think I just love them like friends.
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