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Post by Sincerity on Apr 10, 2020 6:51:19 GMT -5
Every time I get lonely, I start to think about ex boyfriends. I convince myself I love and miss them. I never really put two and two together before.
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Post by Sir Amadeus on Apr 10, 2020 7:52:49 GMT -5
I need to learn this lesson. =/
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Post by lucy hanson on Apr 10, 2020 8:52:37 GMT -5
This is probably why I keep attaching myself to people from my past.
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Post by gibson on Apr 10, 2020 9:57:44 GMT -5
It's hard. I'm reading more affection in texts than are really there. I have to remember that my friends are just my friends.
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Post by DPR on Apr 10, 2020 9:58:24 GMT -5
This affects men and women equally. Sometimes it's hard to figure out what you're truly feeling. The next time you feel a certain way, ask yourself why.
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Post by Miss Ginny on Apr 10, 2020 10:10:55 GMT -5
I can't get this song out of my head now. It's really powerful. I've been rethinking a relationship I kept being drawn back to for no reason.
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Post by ontheroad on Apr 10, 2020 10:57:14 GMT -5
Sending hugs to anyone who needs one today.
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Post by Miss. Aimee on Apr 24, 2020 20:31:47 GMT -5
Great DivideHow have you been feeling since you made your topic?
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Post by maplesyrup on Apr 25, 2020 5:03:27 GMT -5
I hope you are all doing well.
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Post by Great Divide on Apr 25, 2020 5:38:25 GMT -5
Thanks to everyone for checking up on me. I've been finding it easier to just leave some people be. I don't NEED them to thrive on my own.
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Post by XOXO HALEY on Apr 25, 2020 5:39:34 GMT -5
I'm glad you've come to that realization. You are a strong woman all on your own.
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Post by Great Divide on Apr 25, 2020 5:40:11 GMT -5
Yes. It was pretty silly of me to rely on some people's acceptance of me and their talking to me to make me feel like I had self-worth.
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Post by XOXO HALEY on Apr 25, 2020 5:40:48 GMT -5
No, it's reasonable to want the love and support of your friends, but it should never be something you chase, and you are right, being lonely and missing someone doesn't mean that you are still in love with them.
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Post by Great Divide on Apr 25, 2020 5:41:41 GMT -5
It took me a long time to process that. All the "good times" doesn't make up for the current bad times.
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Post by XOXO HALEY on Apr 25, 2020 5:42:04 GMT -5
It sure sounds like BotM was really productive for you in helping you think through your feelings.
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