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May 6, 2017 5:42:21 GMT -5
Post by Javier9101983 on May 6, 2017 5:42:21 GMT -5
So, had a breakup recently. Things just ended out of nowhere. It was her decision and she did the signature blocking.
Now her family is constantly texting or messaging me, asking me weird questions, and it always seems like there's an
agenda. It's creeping me the hell out. Do you even stay friends with the family when their kid breaks your heart?
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May 6, 2017 7:11:24 GMT -5
Post by SpaceUnicorn on May 6, 2017 7:11:24 GMT -5
You mean like her parents and stuff?
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Post by SpaceUnicorn on May 6, 2017 7:12:07 GMT -5
For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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May 6, 2017 7:16:29 GMT -5
Post by Robles on May 6, 2017 7:16:29 GMT -5
If they are being negative, you gotta distance yourself fromt them.
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May 6, 2017 8:46:14 GMT -5
Post by Grandpa Redwood on May 6, 2017 8:46:14 GMT -5
Sometimess unfortnately, people take sides and you miight need to axe the whole family out of your life.
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May 6, 2017 8:47:38 GMT -5
Post by Mr. Tuxedo on May 6, 2017 8:47:38 GMT -5
What do you mean by agenda? Are they trying to set you up? Did they take her side in the breakup?
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May 6, 2017 8:57:34 GMT -5
Post by Tim05 on May 6, 2017 8:57:34 GMT -5
How long were you with the girl? Think that is a big factor. If you're with a girl 6 months, do not stay close with her family. If you're with her 10 years, and you've actually come to love the family as well, and they want to stay in your lives, I think it can work in the right situation
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May 6, 2017 9:08:04 GMT -5
Post by Javier9101983 on May 6, 2017 9:08:04 GMT -5
Yeah her extended family. They keep asking me fishy questions like they're digging for info.
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May 6, 2017 9:08:41 GMT -5
Post by Javier9101983 on May 6, 2017 9:08:41 GMT -5
How long were you with the girl? Think that is a big factor. If you're with a girl 6 months, do not stay close with her family. If you're with her 10 years, and you've actually come to love the family as well, and they want to stay in your lives, I think it can work in the right situation Known over 10 yrs. Been friends with the family 10 yrs. Only dated briefly. |
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May 6, 2017 9:23:14 GMT -5
Post by Tim05 on May 6, 2017 9:23:14 GMT -5
How long were you with the girl? Think that is a big factor. If you're with a girl 6 months, do not stay close with her family. If you're with her 10 years, and you've actually come to love the family as well, and they want to stay in your lives, I think it can work in the right situation Known over 10 yrs. Been friends with the family 10 yrs. Only dated briefly. I'd say it is perfectly fine to stay friends with the family then. If that is what you are comfortable with of course. |
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May 6, 2017 10:48:29 GMT -5
Post by Javier9101983 on May 6, 2017 10:48:29 GMT -5
Known over 10 yrs. Been friends with the family 10 yrs. Only dated briefly. I'd say it is perfectly fine to stay friends with the family then. If that is what you are comfortable with of course. They are being weird though. Starting to think I need to cut them out. |
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May 6, 2017 10:48:51 GMT -5
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Post by Mr. Tuxedo on May 6, 2017 10:48:51 GMT -5
I'd say it is perfectly fine to stay friends with the family then. If that is what you are comfortable with of course. They are being weird though. Starting to think I need to cut them out. Do what's best for your own emptional heaelth. |
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May 6, 2017 12:15:30 GMT -5
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Post by Riley Matthews on May 6, 2017 12:15:30 GMT -5
They are being weird though. Starting to think I need to cut them out. Do what's best for your own emptional heaelth. sometimes holding on is more painful. Good luck man. |
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May 6, 2017 19:58:08 GMT -5
Post by Yankeefan1955 on May 6, 2017 19:58:08 GMT -5
This the woman you called a B in the other thread?
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May 6, 2017 19:58:33 GMT -5
Post by DPR on May 6, 2017 19:58:33 GMT -5
If the family is causing you unnecessary stress, it's time to cut the cord.
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