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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2013 15:07:09 GMT -5
is it weird to watch porn w your other person because ive watched it with two of mine and usually im just giggling pointing out inaccuracies and dumb things
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Post by Nesco87 on May 13, 2013 17:01:24 GMT -5
is it weird to watch porn w your other person because ive watched it with two of mine and usually im just giggling pointing out inaccuracies and dumb things Rofl. I've done that. The color of the condom changes during camera shots. |
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2013 17:10:13 GMT -5
^some men even say that lap dances arent cheating because it isnt intercourse it depends where both people draw the line I would consider it unfaithful to make out with another girl. No physical contact if you ask me! |
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Post by biancarose on May 13, 2013 18:25:34 GMT -5
I wouldnt want my bf to kiss or sexually touch another girl.
Hugging is fine... or kissing a friend on the cheek is fine
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Post by defa12 on May 13, 2013 19:33:44 GMT -5
Bottom line, just see how your partner feels and come to terms on what cheating is.
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Post by Stumpzzz on May 14, 2013 15:43:53 GMT -5
I've heard some couple actually like to watch porn together so I don't think it can really count as cheating. Sure have. It actually helped our relationship when things became stagnant for a while there. I don't see it as cheating at all. I'd encourage it if anything. |
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Post by A Dream Is A Wish (Old) on May 14, 2013 18:25:57 GMT -5
I'm going to go in depth on this issue because I have had good and bad experiences with it.
In general, I don't think porn is bad, but I was against it for a long time because my ex abused it and he was the first guy I ever dated. I enjoy watching porn and was a little jealous when I found out my ex liked porn because I was insecure about my appearance, but I decided to watch it with him and be open-minded. Me and him never had sex, but we did other things together and porn could enhance those things, so I tried it. Instead of it being an enjoyable experience we had together, he would get angry at me every time afterwards. He'd talk about the girls in porn and how crazy sexually they were and how tame I was in comparison. He'd get angry because I didn't let him sleep around like porn stars would probably like and that I wasn't comfortable with the ideas of threesomes or other sexual things in real life. I was fine with WATCHING those things, but I didn't want to do them in real life. And he said he couldn't be happy with me because I'd never give him the kind of sex he saw in porn.
He used it to make me feel miserable about myself. He often chose pornography over kissing me or fooling around with me or seeing pictures of me. He liked the porn way more than he liked me. When porn was on, I became invisible and I knew it. I could dance around the room naked and he wouldn't even see me.
I grew to hate porn and I've met other women who had similar experiences who hated porn as well because we were with men who had a genuine addiction to porn and emotionally tortured us because of it.
But am I against porn now? No. I've watched it several times with my fiance and sometimes I make up erotic stories for him to read because I write a lot. He realizes that porn is just a fantasy-that real sex isn't like that and that it's a fantasy we enjoy together. He's appreciative when I watch porn with him and while we do look at the porn, he eventually looks back at me and tells me I'm beautiful and that he is glad to be doing this with me and not some other girl. That I'm the real person in the room, not them and so it's supposed to enhance our relationship, not control it.
I don't care that he watches porn at all. In fact, he can freely watch it in the room with me at any time. Because he isn't addicted to it and makes a point of showing me that although he enjoys the fantasy, I'm the real girl he's in love with and having sex with.
I think porn is great if you're with someone who isn't abusing it. That it can enhance your relationship and connection to one another, but absolute hell if you're with someone who uses it to emotionally torture you.
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Post by ЯΛVΣП on May 14, 2013 18:49:39 GMT -5
Sex should be intimate between two people, who are in love. Porn just bends all of the rules. I don't think of it as cheating, but I would not want my boyfriend or husband to be watching it, and then coming to me and expect the same things.
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Post by Moot on May 14, 2013 19:27:43 GMT -5
I like pornography.
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2013 19:39:50 GMT -5
My question is WHY men watch it constantly, even if they are sexually active with their girlfriends. Constantly? If any man is watching porn "constantly" he has serious problems! If a man prefers porn over the real thing, then he's worthless. |
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2013 19:40:41 GMT -5
 Cool.
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Post by ЯΛVΣП on May 14, 2013 19:42:45 GMT -5
My question is WHY men watch it constantly, even if they are sexually active with their girlfriends. Constantly? If any man is watching porn "constantly" he has serious problems! If a man prefers porn over the real thing, then he's worthless. Then it's an addiction. |
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Cool. 