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Post by Jena Skrosky on Jan 10, 2020 6:03:03 GMT -5
That's my resolution. I let people walk all over me all the time and too often I get stuck in situations I don't deserve.
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Post by CrazyAgent on Jan 10, 2020 6:03:48 GMT -5
I'm glad you recognize you deserve better because some people sit and think they deserve to be a doormat.
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Post by Jena Skrosky on Jan 10, 2020 6:04:40 GMT -5
You're right and I used to be in that position. For years, I engaged in so much self blame that I was constantly in tears.
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Post by CrazyAgent on Jan 10, 2020 6:05:01 GMT -5
You've already made a lot of progress if you can say, "I didn't cause their behavior and this isn't my fault."
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Post by prabhudesai on Jan 10, 2020 6:05:28 GMT -5
I wish you luck. It can be hard for a lot of people. Keep practicing. Tell people, "Don't speak to me that way!"
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Post by Leseratte123 on Jan 10, 2020 6:06:21 GMT -5
You are going to be great and we're here any time you need some support.
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Post by Jena Skrosky on Jan 10, 2020 6:06:39 GMT -5
Thank you for being so nice, especially since I've been away for a while.
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Post by Leseratte123 on Jan 10, 2020 6:06:55 GMT -5
You don't have to be here every day for us to be nice to you.
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Post by Jena Skrosky on Jan 10, 2020 6:07:19 GMT -5
Thank you. I really feel included in this special world over here. I love you guys. I miss you all.
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Post by DPR on Jan 10, 2020 6:08:17 GMT -5
I know you can do it. It doesn't have to be in one day. Never settle for less than you deserve. You are no one's doormat or toilet ever.
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Post by cloud on Jan 10, 2020 6:09:55 GMT -5
Boundaries will set you free! Take care of your mental health and your physical health will follow.
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Post by palisades on Jan 10, 2020 11:38:00 GMT -5
Yes. Put down your foot and say NO!
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Post by Kevin Kurson on Jan 10, 2020 18:12:17 GMT -5
I know you can do it. Good luck.
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Post by Miss. Aimee on Jan 11, 2020 8:53:47 GMT -5
Same. I take the same abuse from the same people over and over.
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Post by Play_Song on Jan 11, 2020 13:08:30 GMT -5
I need to take away keys to my house. I know it's good to open doors, but I can't let people keep wiping their dirt on my white rugs.
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