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Post by count_my_ribs on Apr 16, 2019 5:27:30 GMT -5
I am scared of some of my relatives. Some of them are very verbally abusive and I am scared of them.
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Post by deathstar on Apr 16, 2019 7:28:34 GMT -5
I'm scared of some of mine, but they are NUTS. They belong in looney bins.
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Post by Ohh Lacee on Apr 16, 2019 7:28:54 GMT -5
Like SCARED scared, or you'd just prefer to keep your distance?
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Post by REBdomine on Apr 16, 2019 7:29:22 GMT -5
It's fine to stay away from the negative people in your life. You don't have to let them talk to you that way. Do you live with these people?
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Post by Sir Palladin on Apr 16, 2019 7:29:50 GMT -5
I'm sorry you have to deal with negativity. No one deserves that.
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Post by Ja(v)ie on Apr 16, 2019 7:30:43 GMT -5
Maybe they keep doing it because you keep tolerating it. Can you put your foot down or do you think it'll make things worse? If you don't live with them, it's time to put down the ban hammer.  |
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Post by Phreck on Apr 16, 2019 7:31:14 GMT -5
Jerks. You're a good person Will and you don't deserve this.
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Post by Holden on Apr 16, 2019 11:15:02 GMT -5
Some of mine are really moody and confrontational. I would say scary too.
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Post by xea989 on Apr 16, 2019 16:09:21 GMT -5
It's hard when youre an adult and you have to choose between tolerating and or feeling guilty for leaving.
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Post by count_my_ribs on Apr 16, 2019 16:09:52 GMT -5
I keep on going because I don't think it would be right to walk away.
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Post by Madam Moriarty on Apr 16, 2019 16:10:18 GMT -5
I keep on going because I don't think it would be right to walk away. You mean you wouldn't ever cut ties with them completely? |
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Post by count_my_ribs on Apr 16, 2019 16:10:39 GMT -5
Exactly. I can be a people pleaser. I'd rather keep trying different ways to get them to say nicer things.
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Post by Madam Moriarty on Apr 16, 2019 16:11:03 GMT -5
Consider that it's not your fault, might be nothing you did, and they're just set in their stubborn ways.
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Post by count_my_ribs on Apr 16, 2019 16:11:20 GMT -5
If I can one day process "not my fault" I'd be in a better place emotionally.
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Post by Madam Moriarty on Apr 16, 2019 16:12:03 GMT -5
Only blame yourself if you actually did something wrong to them. Don't LOOK for things to pin on yourself. Don't look for reasons for their behavior. There might be not logic to their behavior.
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